Gateway to Nirvana.

I can be your travel companion, but I cant make the trip on behalf of you.

Tropical getaways are what many of our dreams are made of. Swaying palms, powder-fine sands, and clear blue waters—what’s not to like? Well, stop dreaming and listen up!  “Tropical” or Paradise doesn’t have to mean happiness, intimacy, and sex with aphrodisiac foods or The gateway to Nirvana. “Tropical” doesn’t even have to mean paradise, The Garden of Eden. Many have long searched for its location, based on clues given in the biblical text, but the age-long question may have finally been uncovered. Or is it?

Consumers scroll through their phones, hungry for content that will inspire their next move and I can see this desire to escape to these landscapes, to do something “real” like many celebrities, bloggers or travellers do.

My question is Are you trying to hide yourself ? Travel far to make your life even busyer? Good news, you can stop it now.

Today we live in the moment where a conscious awareness and a commitment to staying in the “now.” Living in the present moment can be the the solution to our sex problems. Now when life has given you time, so you can not complain about the busy life, juggling work, family, kids and social engagements, you have given with possibility to STOP! Stop all that and find paradise inside of you.

Living in the present moment is the solution to most of our problems, also problems with receiving the orgasm and staying in orgasm. 

You might be thinking that this all sounds great, but what does it actually mean to “live in the present moment?” How could we be living in anything but the present? And how do I do that, when I have sex.

Being in the present moment, or the “here and now,” means that we are aware and mindful of what is happening at this very moment. We are not distracted by ruminations on the past or worries about the future, but centered in the here and now. All of our attention is focused on the present moment. The body falls off here and here we need to understand the difference between performing sex with our bodies or being sex in our soul. The mind travels on with you. Desires accompany you. Ego travels with you. The memory of past actions goes with you. The desire to accomplish those things you could not get goes with you. Your entire mind goes with you. Forever and ever, but you can stop craving love and actions from others. Craving is often the result of not fully loving or understanding yourself. 

Typical situation is the point where you make sex to a person, woman or man and you think it unites you. For a moment it gives you the illusion of unity and then a vast division suddenly comes in. That’s why, after every sex act, a frustration, a depression sets in. One feels that one is so far away from the beloved. Our beings crave real ecstasy just like our bodies crave real, nutritious food. We can only survive for so long on junk food, and on faux ecstasy, before the lack of the real thing results in illness, lethargy, and depression.

Constantly feeling as though people do not love you is a sign that you need to learn to love yourself. Always craving love is a cycle that must be stopped as soon as possible. By acknowledging the positive traits about yourself and learning to live for you, eventually, the love craving cycle will end. You will begin to realize that you do not need love from others to be happy with your life. In the end you may be surprised; when you give yourself real love, so will others. 

You can love a person because the person satisfies your sex. But this is not love, it is just a bargain. You can perform sex with a person because you love and then sex follows just like a shadow, part of love. But being in bliss, embodied ecstasy, does not crave a partner. It does not crave from others at all. Because embodied orgasmic ecstasy is the only thing where there is no time at all.  It is the point between past and future. It is always there and it is the only point we can access in time. Everything that happens, happens in the present moment. Everything that ever happened and will ever happen can only happen in the present moment. It is impossible for anything to exist outside of it. The same matters in orgasm, it is in the present moment, we can stay in it. So you can not except it coming or someone giving it to you. You can not even claim it pasted away.

Being present minded in sexual power is the key to staying healthy and happy.  It helps you fight anxiety, cut down on your worrying and rumination, and keeps you grounded and connected to yourself and everything around you. Love to yourself can give a new soul to sex. Then the sex is transfigured, it becomes beautiful; it is no longer sex, it has something of the beyond in it. It has become a bridge.